Thursday, December 27, 2012

Mid Century Modern Miniature Cherry Wood Television, The Destiny of Things, Story XXIX

Mid Century Modern Miniature Cherry Wood Television, The Destiny of Things,  Story XXIX
started September 4, 2012, revised Th.27December2012
 
This mini mcm tv can change channels!  It's hinged, so the picture in the set can be changed. Simple beauty!

There was a good story with emails, but the buyer wants to remain anonymous.  I am devastated, but in the end the story is between two good souls and that's enough for me!


Saying Good-bye:  I don't know why, but it doesn't feel like I had to say good-bye to this piece.  Maybe because I remade my connection to it through emailing and knowing I have the pic of me standing in front of my Grandmother's tv  somewhere in my hoard!  Maybe because I made new connections with a "real" person and found somethings in common: we don't own tvs, we like to read with the sound of rain as music and we both like miniatures.  Maybe it's because enough time has gone by and time heals all wounds.

Thank you for rescuing my little mini tv from my childhood and giving it two new good homes!  Thank you for joining me in my HoarderRehab adventure of The Destiny of Things!

Wednesday, December 26, 2012

Dragon Candle Holder, Cherry Blossom Tray and Celluloid Box: The Destiny of Things, Story XXVIII

Dragon Candle Holder, Cherry Blossom Tray and  Celluloid Box:  The Destiny of Things, Story XXVIII

It entralls me and I probably spend way too much time thinking over it, but many minute or trivial things boggle my mind!  Some things sit in my shop(s), some collecting tons of fav's, others nothing and then all of a sudden, everyone wants it!  Okay, not everyone, but two or more at the same time and some things have had a waiting list!

This is one of the items that two people wanted at the same time and even a tidbit of info I had randomly asked for came in on it, but by then, it didn't matter!--They just wanted it!

When it rains, it pours!

So to stop overworking my mind over time best spent elsewhere, I've had to tell myself, "first come, first served or first come, first reserved."

Oh wow, I'm a techless hoarder etsy newbie, but I thought I could see how many views a "sold" item had and how many and who fav'd it in the "sold" area, but it seems to be gone on this item.  I guess the "ever-evolving" etsy has changed that feature.  Let me look at the yearly stats. It had 270 views and was fav'd 29 times before it sold on Nov. 9, 2012 and now I can't find the info. of when it was listed.  Oh well.  I do know, it was listed twice.

I have some interesting theories and stats on my etsy shops and items, but that's another story!
Anyways, Lisa wanted this item and for her new bedroom "redo" decor and the dragon was for her hubby because he is born in the year of the dragon and she wanted to add candles to the mix, but it was on reserve for Red (also named Lisa) and had been on reserve for a long time.  I can't recall but over a week, I think.  Now I put time limits on reserved items, depending on it's "wantability" of  24-72 hours.

In the meantime, I didn't know how attached I was to the dragon candle holder until it went on "reserve" and had always wondered if it was Japanese, Chinese or Indonesian and when I listed it, asked if anyone "out there" knew more info on the it and the info. came forward around the same time too!  So I posted the below in the original listing:

NEW HOARDER HISTORY NEWS! Someone from etsy was nice enough take the time and email this info. to me!! Thank you Rachelle!!! of VintageStarr who wrote me:

This candle holder was actually made in Indonesia in the 1980s 1990s. As far as the influence, many Chinese were living in the Indonesian islands for hundreds of years, so It probably was a Chinese influence but dragons and Garudas are BIG symbols there too. A big thanks to Rachelle of VintageStarr and Starrbeads for answering the question I put out there!

When it rains it pours all at the same time!

Long story shorter, Lisa wanted a discount, for the dragon, but didn't say how much, when that happens I just let people know that if they buy two or more items, depending on which items, most usually at least a  10% discount would be offered.

When the dragon fell out of reserve, Lisa wanted the cherry blossom tray and stuff for her vanity, like a celluloid brush.  I didn't have a celluloid brush, but I knew "somewhere" in my hoard I had a celluloid box and maybe the matching hair collector box.  Sometimes, my memory kicks in "out of nowhere".  I did remember that I had a celluloid box, but didn't know where it was.

I love it when people request items because it's very motivating for me!  I spent a lot of time looking for that box (a couple of days) and found my box collection, which included round boxes!


So off it went with the cherry blossom tray:

Saying Good-bye:  I'm happy these went to a new home of a redo bedroom!  And Lisa is happy with them!  The cherry blossom tray I used a lot for serving tea for one.  I had/have an extensive tray collection ranging from lucite to Japanese plastic and lacquerware.

As for the celluloid, I used to collect that too in high school, but had only kept the round box.  However, it was the cast iron dragon candle holder that surprised me!  I was more attached to it than I thought!

And even more weird, it's because it held a dream in it!  That candle holder made the most amazing shadows when lit and if the candle flickered the shadows danced.  I found it most beautiful and eye catching and peaceful.

Side note:  Did you ever watch "The Pillow Book"?  with Ewan McGregor and Vivian Wu?  That movie got me very interested in shadows and of course, as a kid I loved hand shadow stories and taught them to my students!  Anyways, the home decor in that movie has a lot of shadow play and there is one shadow of large vases of water and objects and the shadows get magnified on the wall.  I kinda understand the magnifying part, but I've tried to duplicate the vase shadow and couldn't do it.  If anyone knows how to do that, please clue me in!

Over the years, I've collected objects that make amazing, moving, peaceful shadows and in my last move let most of them go to donation, mostly due to being allergic to candle smoke, except for this candle holder.

What I learned:

1.  Again, I never know which item I'm attached to and/or what is "in" the object until I have to let it go consciously.  For some reason selling the item is a lot different than donating it or even giving it to a friend.  Haven't figured that out yet.  Anyone out there know?

2.  Some of my items hold my dreams in them!  Not just memories, but "full on" dreams!  I guess my shadow artist dream burnt up with my allergies to candle smoke.  Light bulbs just don't seem to be the same, but I have noticed that I can burn the Japanese white candles without problems.  The little white ones from Japan for Butsudans seem to burn clean.

Side Note:  I'm not religious, but there are many different religions in my family.  I can think of at least six.  I have the butsudan that my Grandfather made for my Grandmother during internment from scrap wood and sardine can hinges and a Tenrikyo stand from my other Grandmother.  I use them in their honor and to honor my ancestors, however I have no idea if I'm doing it correctly... just what I remember from my childhood and later funerals.

3.  Lastly, I never know when it's going to drizzle or rain cats and dogs!  I'm learning a lot from being a seller on etsy and it's much more complicated than being a buyer, but just as much fun!  Those posts are in backdraft too!

Thank you Rachelle of VintageStarr and Starrbeads for taking the time out of your busy day to email the info. I had asked for about the dragon.  Thank you Red of La Fleur de Lis Dragon and GoodSell Hall for buying my/your/our cast iron dragon and for helping me to release it's dreams.  Thank you Lisa for changing your mind about the dragon candle holder and ordering two other pieces of Hoarder History and giving it a new home with your new decor!  and thank you for making a request for the celluloid items to get me started on more HoarderRehab organization!  Thank you both for the lesson on finalizing my "reserve" policies!

Thank you for joining me today as a "techless hoarder Etsy newbie" navigating through my HoarderRehabThe Destiny of Things!

Tuesday, December 25, 2012

Christmas Memories from Santa: Off Topic, Story 1

Christmas Memories from Santa:  Off Topic, Story 1
started 13dec2012, revised 25dec2012

 Here is a story where the comments are just as good as the story!

Hilarious Kid Gift Requests:  The Year I Asked Santa for a Hamburger by Tess Wilson, Apartment Therapy

http://www.apartmenttherapy.com/styles-of-giving-the-hilarioussurreal-little-kid-request-181487

If someone made a book out of these stories and comments, I could read them all day!  Enjoy!

Merry Holidays!

What was your most memorable Christmas gift request?

Monday, December 24, 2012

The Secret Cross: The Destiny of Things, Story XXVII

The Secret Cross:  The Destiny of Things, Story XXVII

This is a sweet romantic Christmas story about a husband's gift to his wife!
 

December 15 2012 10:22am EDT
Listing: www.etsy.com/listing/117663823/80s-sterling-silver-dove-cross-charm

Hi! Roger Casanova here from Austin Texas!

I'd like to buy this from you, but there's a catch. I just noticed my wife "favorited" this item and is there a way we can do this so she doesn't see I bought it for her for Christmas???

Thanks very much!!

Roger


December 15 2012 11:48am EDT 

Hi Roger from Austin Texas!

That's so cool.

Hmm... never had this come up, but I'm a newbie here. If you buy it she will see that it has sold, but it doesn't show who bought it, as long as you have a separate etsy accounts.

Use a gift card? Have a close relative buy it and pay them with cash?

Do you mean how she won't see it on your paypal or c/c or see it sold on etsy? Will she see this email?

Thank you for the email! And I will help you in anyway I can to keep this a surprise for her Christmas!

Best regards,
~Kennedy


December 15 2012 12:20pm EDT 

That's right!!! You're right!! Not even sure why I didn't think about that!! No, I know why! Cause I'm a man!!! Figures, right!?

But that's right...our accounts are seperate, so it won't show. Okay...here goes. Gonna pay with my PayPal account...belongs to me and only me! Thanks Kennedy!

Roger...from Austin Texas. :))

Saying Good-bye:  What a story!  Easier than I thought, but then again, a lot easier because of the story.  He bought her something from her fav'd page and wants to keep it a surprise!

I have a lot of crosses!  For example, some of them are in this cross box!  As seen, in my other posts about them.  Just imagine, I had 3-4 cross/medal boxes!  Also, I have one more large oak cross my brother and I made years ago, when I was making "my type" of milagro crosses. 

So I've been thinking, whichever crosses don't sell, I'll put them on the cross and have a cross of crosses!  In the same style as my "lovers" cross and "garden" cross, but the "cross" cross.

What I learned:

1.  Do my craft projects seem to be piling up like my "destiny of things" backdrafts?  Maybe!  So I've started to box them, as I look and find pieces.

2.  My HoarderRehab New Year Resolutions list has been started and it will intergrate, my HoarderRehab schedule with my health schedule and include some exercise and more crafting!

Do you write out your New Year's Resolutions?

Thank you Roger for your story!  Check out his art at his etsy shop, Casanova Design and his wife's shop, Esmeraldas.  Also, his blog Casanova has a good article on how to receive, frame and store your art work.  Thank you for taking part in my HoarderRehab: The Destiny of Things!  Happy Christmas Eve!


Intentions for B. Maugerite Medal: The Destiny of Things, Story XXVI


Intentions for B. Maugerite Bourgeyeos Beatification Charm:  The Destiny of Things, Story XXVI

The literal and figurative stories behind these religious medals have become very interesting!

B. Maugerite Bourgeyeos was a very very interesting woman, now Saint and very ahead of her time for 1653!  Read a short version of what interests me about her here and a more interesting long version, if you are not religious-religious, like me here.  Besides being the first female Canadian Saint, she was the first to uncloister education in the Catholic church.  (side note:  first American Saint here)

Ever wondered what "uncloistered" means?  Back in her day over 300 years, it seems the Catholic church's educational system was cloistered, meaning it only educated Catholics.  She didn't discriminate and taught all, regardless of religious belief.

Here is the figurative story I got from Lisa Moreno's email!  Thank you Lisa, esp. for the photos!

December 3 2012 12:44pm EDT
Invoice: www.etsy.com/your/orders/70631080

Dear Kennedy,

Thank you for asking what my intensions are with the B. Marguerite Bourgeoys medallion. I am planning on putting it on an antique bracelet and giving it to my daughter for Christmas who is out of state in college. She is very involved with her sorority, that philanthropy's the "make a wish foundation" and she also serves at a youth ministry when she can.

My daughter enjoys helping kids in anyway, so I thought this medallion would be perfect for my daughter.

Thank you, and blessings to you.
Happy Holidays!
 


December 3, 2012 12:59pm EDT



Dear Lisa!

Thank you so much for your story. It's a perfect story with perfect intentions! I am so happy with the good news! And you included pics!!! You are a doll!!!!

Wow, I just took a closer look at the bracelet you made and it's even more beautiful close up! I love the added heart detail, the faceted metal beads opposite the freshwater pearls! And the locking mechanism is to die for!

Today must be my lucky day because you are the second person to send me their story! I will put it on my blog tomorrow or the next! I'm so excited and motivated now!

Thanks again for taking part in my HoarderRehab, I wish you knew how much this helps end my hoarding ways!
~Kennedy

PS. Your daughter is so fortunate to have such a thoughtful mother to make something so meaningful! And your daughter sounds amazing too! Will you be opening your own etsy jewelry shop now?




December 3, 2012 1:15pm EDT 

Your words are so kind, and as for my own jewelry shop on etsy, probably not.  I actually bought that bracelet 20 years ago and have kept it in my jewelry box since. Im not one to change my jewelry out very often so the thought came to me of putting together something for my daughter after looking at etsy's religious charms.

I truly believe its much more meaningful when love and thought are put into making something. I can't wait to give it to her!

Regards
Lisa

 I love getting pics of my/your/our items at their new home!  It's so reliving relieving!

Saying Good-bye:   I have many of B. Maugerite Bourgeyeos Beatification charm medallions and am thinking of adding them to some of my old jewelry, like Lisa did.  It does make them more meaningful and I can see if it's as calming and destressing as mending.

Note to self:  Try it on these, if they don't sell:  saint bracelets and bead woven bracelets.

What I learned:

1.  If I have many of one item, I don't have a problem with attachment! that's full chuckle hilarious ironic! but in reality it's a huge part of my hoarding habits I need to deal with.

2.  Upcycling seems to be a craft I need to try and see if it helps lower my stress and anxiety levels.

Another -I wish I were a fly on the wall- on Christmas day to see everyone's face as she opens her bracelet!

Thank you etsy for another joyful connection of letting something go to a new home.  Thank you Lisa for another Christmas HoarderRehab story and especially for emailing "after" pics!  Thank you for helping me by reading The Destiny of Things and keeping me motivated to post all my backdrafts!


Sunday, December 23, 2012

In Santa's Arms: The Destiny of Things, Story XXVI

 In Santa's Arms:  The Destiny of Things, Story XXVI
 started Oct. 29, 2012, miniature train from childhood miniature collection, revised 23dec2012

I've had that train since I was a little girl and it holds good memories in it!

As a child, I spent hours arranging and rearranging my miniature collection on two bedroom shelves that were painted pepto bismo pink!  I didn't know it back then but my miniature family had a two story loft!

I spent a lot of time with my bedroom decor back then.  Not only rearranging my miniatures, but my own bedroom furniture.  I also arranged fresh cut flowers from the backyard weekly for my miniature family, my own book shelves and dresser.  I kept potted plants too.  I still have an antique cast iron hot pot I used as a planter and my Joan Walsh Anglund planters.


Note from Buyer Hi, Thank you for the shipping break. I make Santa's and will put it in his arms. Katie


Saying Good-bye:  Thanks for helping me let go! It's so much easier when there is such a good story like yours! I'd love to see it with your Santa!  See all of Katies dolls, including Santa!


What I Learned:

1.  It was easier to say good-by then, than it is now!

Problem:  I think holiday stress is a big factor on how attached and what regrets I have later about letting go of some of my things.  I suppose that's why my hoarding cycle is perpetual.  I let go of something wisely and easily, yet stress, in this case, family holiday stress brings back ideas two fold.  I miss my stuff!  I think I can recycle them in some way to keep them close.  I don't want to regret losing any more of my stuff!

Although I do seem to get over it eventually.  I hope at some point in time, I find better stress relievers so I don't go back to buying the stuff I let go!  Family holiday stress starts in November, builds up til Christmas, builds up some more til New Year's day and seems to wind down in March.

Solution:  1)  When is enough enough?  How do I set limits?  2)  Release my stress into crafting!  My latest solution to my childhood items is to set a limit.  Yesterday, Sat. 22dec2012, I started an art piece called, "Childhood Dreams"  It is an old cardboard treasure chest and it will hold items I coveted as a child.

Like this penny lipgloss that all my friends had, but me! That sounds so funny now!
It sounds silly, but this less than $5 item, including shipping is my stocking stuffer gift to myself and is will be the first of  "childhood dreams" art piece!  And it released a whole lot of stress!

Notes to self:  my miniature perfume collection is housed in a display case.  Once emptied it can house my childhood things I can not list yet.  Also, my gumball machine can house stuff too.  And I have a tin treasure chest somewhere and I can fill it.  That will be my set limit!

Hoarder Inspiration or Desperation:  Am I being inspired by finding a way to keep some of my childhood items in art?  or am I giving myself a reason to buy more stuff when I'm stressed?  AND the million dollar question!  Where will I keep these four art items?  Only time will tell!

Thank you etsy again for the HoarderRehab connections!  Thank you Katie of katiesdolls for leaving me your story! 

They are on sale this week for only $29!  That has got to be labor of love pricing because her incredibly made Santa dolls are made from tea stained muslin, recycled antique cutter quilts, his beard is bumpy wool yarn and in my favorite part is he holds many toys for the kids, like a patchwork quilted heart, a doll and a teddy bear, an old wooden alphabet block and maybe even "someone's" childhood miniature train!

Thank you for joining me!  What do you do to unload stress?



Post Notes:  I decided that filling up a gumball machine, two treasure chests and my wall display case was too much!  I'm leaving out the treasure chests.  I also have many broken items I can't seem to let go of either, like a native american tourist bracelet I wore so much it broke and a dime store wallet my grandfather gave me, so I'll have one called, "childhood dreams" and the other one called, "broken dreams".  I'd like to do a series, another one called, "lost dreams".  I'll have to see what I can do without buying much.

Oh, maybe I should start a picture collection instead, like Julie Yarrington on pinterest.  Luckily her "Blast from My Past" is pretty much like mine! which is good because I can't navigate well on pinterest yet.



1,764 Christmas Ornaments! Hoarder Inspiration or Desperation, Story #5

1,764 Christmas Ornaments!  Hoarder Inspiration or Desperation, Story #5
started on Dec. 10, 2012, revised on sun23dec2012

http://gma.yahoo.com/blogs/abc-blogs/grandmother-hangs-christmas-decorations-1-764-them-120209885--abc-news-travel.html

I couldn't decide what to edit in this Yahoo article, so I left it complete! 
 In case, you don't have the time I highlighted the parts that interested me most:

One grandmother in Swansea, a city in southern Wales, might be giving Santa's workshop a run for its money in the Christmas decorating department. 

Sylvia Pope, 69, has a collection of 1,764 Christmas baubles, which she individually hangs from her living room ceiling, starting in September and building up to Christmas day. She includes a few Christmas lights in the corners of the room and on the hearth, but not too many because the ornaments on the ceiling are the main attraction.

"I pin them up. I start in September because if I go out and I see something, I buy it," Pope told ABCNews.com. "I put them up until Christmas. And then I don't take them down until March. It takes so long to put them up, so it's quite silly only to leave them up for a day or two."

Pope has been decorating her ceiling for 12 years now. She said she originally got the idea after attending a holiday party with her son in 1999, at which the host had ornaments on the ceiling. As soon as she saw them, she decided to start collecting enough baubles to have an impressive display the following year.

pic from Mail Online UK, more pics there too!

"I thought, 'Oh my gosh.' That's what started me. From then on, I bought as many baubles as I could. I get different ones now. Not just the round baubles, all the different shapes and sizes," Pope said.

When asked where she finds her favorite Christmas baubles, Pope reminisced about her one-time trip to Macy's.

"Every time we go somewhere on a holiday or anything like that, I always pick up some baubles," Pope said. "My best holiday was New York. When I went into Macy's, I walked in and I thought I'd gone to heaven. There was so much there I had to buy another bag in New York just to transport the baubles back home.

"Oh my goodness, I had a big bag full. I spent maybe $300 on Christmas ornaments. I've got the New York Yankees, I've got their stadium, I've got the Empire State Building. I've got the Statue of Liberty, all of the shapes."

When the ornaments aren't on full display in her living room, they are carefully tucked away in boxes waiting to once again be brought out for Pope's grandchildren's enjoyment.

"I usually have 30 or so boxes in my attic. They're so delicate. Some are quite special, so I wrap them in tissue paper and put them in the boxes and then put them away," Pope said.

"My grandchildren love it. They think it's fantastic. They play, 'Let's look who can find a certain bauble.' I've got a lot of Disney characters, Red Riding Hood and the wolf. They all look to see which ones they can find. They look to find their names. It's an eye spy game."

Pope started getting media attention for her unusual decorating technique last year, but said she doesn't do it for the fame. Rather, just for the kicks.

"I just do it because I enjoy it," Pope said. "A lot of people might think it's a novel idea. But I like it. I do it for my pleasure and my children's pleasure. We've all got different ideas of pleasure but it's the one thing I enjoy doing and they always knows as soon as they walk through the door, 'Gran's got her baubles.' People come here and you can't take your eyes off it. I don't think it's too gaudy, I think it looks nice."

pic from Mail Online UK, more pics there too!
  
Below is my favorite heartfelt comment out of the ones I read:


Elizabeth  •  6 days ago
My mom did that every year until she died. She always told me when I was little that Santa's Elves did it while I was sleeping; nothing was hanging on the ceiling when I went to bed, and it was covered when I woke up. Happy birthday and Merry Christmas, mom.

Hoarder Inspiration or Desperation:   I love stuff like this!  Art in repetition!  As an artist, it's amaZing!  It's a 7 month labor of love!  but as a hoarder, it kinda gives me a stomach ache because if I did this- it would most likely stay up year after year until the ceiling collapsed from over abundance!

I read through most of the comments, some do this with candy canes and then give them away.  Others cut out paper snowflakes and hang them up from the canopy of their child's bed.

It's given me ideas on LIMITS!  Like an area the size of a canopy bed, instead of an entire ceiling.  Maybe even something more portable, like the inside of an umbrella!

Speaking of limits-I totally forgot about buying 102 vintage Christmas cards until they arrived in the mail!  and get this!  I was thinking I could use them as "thank you" inserts for this year's etsy packages.  I need to work on my sense of time too!

Thank you Yahoo for an inspirational news!  Thank you for joining me in my roller coaster ride though my HoarderRehab and The Destiny of Things!

What do you think?  How did the article provide inspiration and/or desperation for you?